
Friends,
When it comes to theology, fewer matters in the church are more debated amongst denominations (and especially our own) than the observance of the Lord’s Supper. This blog is not intended to deal with those theological issues. My point in writing this blog is to offer an insight into how I personally handle some practical matters that surround the Lord’s Supper and offer these for your consideration. I could offer some tips on things like "how to handle your deacon when he brings grape soda instead of grape juice to prepare the Lord’s Table" (which actually did happen in my first pastorate) but I’ll just stick to more edifying and, hopefully, common matters regarding the Lord’s Supper. It is my hope that this blog can be a means of others possibly renewing or refining their practice of the Lord’s Supper as well as receiving input from others that can be of benefit to all.
1) Consider Intentional Awareness to the Observance of the Lord’ Supper
The Lord’s Supper really shouldn’t be something we just show up and take without serious consideration. Use your church’s bulletins and Sunday School classes to inform people of when the meal will be observed and how they should prepare to take it.
2) Consider Focusing the Entire Worship Service on the Lord’s Supper
3) Consider Preaching About the Lord’s Supper before Observing It
4) Consider Observing the Lord’s Supper in the Morning Worship Service
5) Consider Giving a Time for People to Examine Themselves After the Sermon and Before the Meal
We are commanded in Scripture to examine ourselves before we take the meal. Therefore, the church needs to offer a time for examination to occur. My personal practice is to bring the service into utter silence for a few minutes while we all consider ourselves in Christ. At the end of our examination time, before we come to the table, I will lead the church in prayer using the Lord’s Prayer. The entire congregation is invited to pray it with me.
6) Consider Dismissing in Psalms or Hymns
The gospels record that after observing the meal our Lord and His disciples went out singing hymns (mark 14:26). It seems fitting that our benediction of the meal be in the same order.
7) Consider Doing a Children's Sermon on the Lord’s Supper
If your church observes a "children’s time" during its normal service, consider doing a lesson on the Lord’s Supper. Let them see the bread and the cup while explaining it to them. You can even tell them if they can or cannot take based on their belief in Christ, which offers an evangelistic opportunity during children’s time as well.
8) Consider Walking with the Deacons When they Distribute the Meal
This tip is probably more controversial than the others, but I prefer to walk with my deacons when they distribute the meal. This allows me an opportunity to pray for my people as I go along the pews. It also allows me an opportunity to see who is and who is not taking the meal that I might better focus my prayer and ministry. And, who knows, you might be surprised at what happens when you walk through the congregation. I once had a lost person reach out of the aisle and grab me saying, "I want to be saved- today!"
Feel free to share any practical tips for observing the Lord’s Supper that you perform in your ministry. The Confessing Baptist Blog is a place to strengthen as well as be strengthened.
Blessings,
TJ
TJ
4 comments:
T.J.,
I am making a guess, but I believe we spent some time in the old folks hall at Boyce College. If this is you, man, it's good to be in touch with you again. I'm in Bowling Green, Ky with my wife and pastoring part-time at the same Deaf church I was at while at Boyce. Hope all is well with you and yours!
josh bruffey
Bruff,
It tis I, my brother and it's good to hear from you again too. I think the last time I caught up with you was when you were in Texas at SWBTS.
We're doing good here, my friend. Feel free to rip me an email sometime at tjandjennifermilam (at) hotmail.com.
Blessings,
TJ
These are good practical helps. Thank you! Maybe we could have it out on the theology part, eh? :-)
Brother Hottel,
Thanks for the encouragement. And, yes, possibly in the future we can have it "go down" over the theological variations and opinions of the Lord's Supper:)
For everyone else, I had a phone conversation the other day with Brother Hottel when he asked me about another practical matter of the Lord's Supper- handling it with shut-ins. I should have included a point about this in the original blog as it is important. I personally offer the taking of the Lord's Supper to our shut-ins. I normally take a deacon with me, though sometimes its just me. Ideally there would be a few go with you. The observance of the meal with them is basically an abbreviated version of what I do with the whole congregation on Sunday.
For this event, I carry with me a nifty little box that has a little jar for the element of Christ's blood, a few cups and a little container for the element of Christ's body. I think I bought this thing at Lifeway several years ago. It's handy to have and keeps things from getting too messy.
Blessings,
TJ
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